Wednesday, July 30, 2008

What should people be attracted to

If you're telling someone they would be a dime meaning 10 aka "perfect" then in someways you do find the person attractive. It's not like I'm telling her to go kill herself. It is a matter of opinion however, we live in a shallow society. Women will say if he was only a lil taller, or only if he wasn't broke, or if he the looks to go with his money. Women will marry a old man that can barely breathe just for his money.

Guys will date a woman strictly based off her looks, doesn't matter what she has to offer, mentally she could be a total waste of human flesh. But ha, what is worst, for him to only try to date her for looks, or for her money?

When you meet someone, what exactly should a person be attracted to? A. a person's success or B. a person's physical attributes. Off hand both sound superficial and shallow. But in first meeting generally this is all we have to go off, until conversation strikes.

I know people are going to come with the argument well you should get to know them first, well there has to be some initial attraction to begin with. If you claim you're only attracted someone's mind and personality and not their looks or success then you're not being real with yourself. I know their may have been a time or two where you did date someone for all the right reasons, but I'm talking about in general on average.

I'm anxiously awaiting your responses and to see who actually keeps it real.

1 comment:

Unknown said...

yo whats poppin dis be ya gurl clown but i had to read this truthful meaning about like 12 times so i could understand what u were saying more better which does not mean i have a problem with reading what other people write... but i understand it what you're basically saying is people shouldn't be judged by their cover they come how they come like it or not there ain't a thing you can change about how they look if you have a problem then it's just a problem that you cannot solve unless you have the strenght to push the body back up their momma's pie hole (nh) and create some "rebirth" but dis video i love everything about dis person from his head to his toes